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Breaking the Chain of Low Self Esteem: Tips on Coping
Characteristic of Individuals with Low Self-Esteem
Dealing with Low Self-Esteem: A Self-Help Guide
Different Symptoms of Low Self Esteem
Effects of Low Self-Esteem
Helping Someone with Low Self Esteem
How to Improve low self esteem
I Have Low Self-Esteem: What can I do about it?
Looking Out of Signs of Low Self Esteem
Low Self-Esteem Among Teenagers: What are the roots of the problem
Major Consequences of having Low Self-Esteem
Man and Low Self Esteem: a Study on Relationships
Spotting a Teen with Low Self Esteem
The Fate of the Child with Low Self Esteem
The Main Causes of Low Self Esteem
The Problem of Violence: Why Help Solve Low Self Esteem Issues
The Reasons for a Girl's Low Self Esteem
Ways to Avoid Developing Low Self-Esteem to Your Child
What a Woman with Low Self Esteem Should Do
What You Need in Overcoming Low Self Esteem
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Woman: How to Conquer Your Low Self-Esteem
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The Reasons for a Girl's Low Self Esteem
Girls, especially teenaged ones, can actually suffer low self esteem quite easily. You see, girls can be more sensitive to criticism. They can also be more conscious as to the impacts of their social environment. A girl's low self esteem can be triggered quite easily by the people they encounter everyday.
So what can trigger a girl's low self esteem?
1) Criticism - You all know this scene. Girl goes to school wearing an outfit carefully picked out. Girl encounters a group of popular students. Girl receives comment as to how her clothes would pair well with some curtains and a tablecloth. Girl goes home crying.
You see, insult and criticism is a normal part of every teenager's life. Although there are those who learn to cope with this pressure, girls with low self esteem are easily affected by this normal occurrence. The fragile emotional state of a teenaged girl is a perfect target for those who do not care about the negative impacts of insults on a girl's low self esteem.
2) Underachievement - Girls with low self esteem often tend to do badly at school. This is because of the fact that these young ladies do not really think that they are capable of high achievements. In case of those who do well, just one mistake can cause them to lose their confidence and drive their schoolwork to go downhill.
Low self esteem affects a girl's ability to cope with defeat. This means that one mistake can actually cause them to lose hope that they can do any better. Their mistakes tend to overshadow their achievements and this actually causes them to fail in their other endeavors.
You see what triggers a girl's low self esteem, but do you know what the root cause of it is? Well, you have to know that a girl's low self esteem actually starts from childhood. Here are the causes:
1) Abandonment - You see, a girl who was abandoned as a child feels like something was wrong with her. She will think that the abandonment was her fault and that she has some sort of defect that drive people to abandon her. She copes with this by either rejecting the idea of social interaction completely or by being overly conscious of her qualities.
In the former, she turns into an extrovert, isolated from society, living in a prison of her own creation. She chooses to live this way because she feels safe. In the second action, she tries to excel, she succeeds in gaining friends and even being the smartest or most popular girl in school. However, deep inside, she cannot truly trust anyone or herself. This is why she keeps looking for perfection but never finds happiness.
2) Abuse - This could take the form of physical, sexual or psychological abuse. Girls who are abused often feel as though they have been singled out by the world to heap problems on. They feel as though they are inadequate to live the normal lives of their peers. This makes them quite scornful of others and quite hopeless when it comes to developing normal relationships.
This also means that they have a problem with trust. They cannot really trust their selves or other people. They think that the abuse they suffered during childhood is a normal part of their existence and is rightfully deserved.
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