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An Issue of Trust: Low Self Esteem and Relationships

Breaking the Chain of Low Self Esteem: Tips on Coping

Characteristic of Individuals with Low Self-Esteem

Dealing with Low Self-Esteem: A Self-Help Guide

Different Symptoms of Low Self Esteem

Effects of Low Self-Esteem

Helping Someone with Low Self Esteem

How to Improve low self esteem

I Have Low Self-Esteem: What can I do about it?

Looking Out of Signs of Low Self Esteem

Low Self-Esteem Among Teenagers: What are the roots of the problem

Major Consequences of having Low Self-Esteem

Man and Low Self Esteem: a Study on Relationships

Spotting a Teen with Low Self Esteem

The Fate of the Child with Low Self Esteem

The Main Causes of Low Self Esteem

The Problem of Violence: Why Help Solve Low Self Esteem Issues

The Reasons for a Girl's Low Self Esteem

Ways to Avoid Developing Low Self-Esteem to Your Child

What a Woman with Low Self Esteem Should Do

What You Need in Overcoming Low Self Esteem

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Woman: How to Conquer Your Low Self-Esteem

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Effects of Low Self-Esteem

 

Parents and environment can make or break the attitude of a growing child.

If the child grew up with loving parents and healthy environment, there is a great tendency that the child will have a much straighter path. On the other hand, if the child grew up from uncaring parents and unhealthy environment, the child will develop several undesirable attitudes; and one of then is having a low self-esteem. Both the parents' and the environment's influence would become very evident as the child grows up.

For there is no more argument on the child who grows up from a good parent and a good environment will have a high percentage of developing good personality, we can lay it to rest. The latter on the other has should be taken into great account particularly its effect.

The effects of having a low self-esteem to a child are the following:

Lack of self-confidence - Low self-esteem person has fear of being mocked as a cause of committing mistakes. Added to this, low self-esteem person cannot rely on his abilities. Fear of failure is another thing that is common to person with low self-esteem. For his abilities were not recognized during childhood, he would develop the fear that everything he does is wrong. The difference between right and wrong may not be clear to him. The tendency is, with all these fears, he would develop the lack self-confidence.

Unhappy personal life - A person who does not know how to interact with other people is in itself, unhappy. This person may have an average level of self-esteem; but still could not intermingle with other people. What more if the person has low self-esteem? The loneliness of everyday life is an effect of other factors that are related to low self-esteem. This of course can be rooted during childhood when he or she feels unwelcome to join groups or friends. As child grows up, he or she can no longer know how to treat other people or afraid to meet others. As a result, the child would choose to be alone.

Distorted view of self and others - Many reasons cause a person to choose not to intermingle with other people. Two of these are his distorted view of self and his distorted view of others. Since he or she has several experiences where s/he has a feeling of un-belongingness, the great tendency would be to question either him or herself or to develop negative views on others.

Poor performance - Since a person with low self-esteem lacks or does not have self-confidence, that person could not do things normally. S/He could show enough effort in realizing his or her goals and desires. This is also because the person is afraid to fail and afraid to receive negative remarks from other people.

These effects are interrelated to each other. One compliments the other. And the other has a big bearing on to the next.

Low self-esteem can also be caused by social background, gender, ethnicity, and trauma among others. Nonetheless, no matter what the cause of having low self-esteem is, it is certain that the effects may be very hard for the person experiencing it. And unless there are changes done, the effects will continue to prevail to his personally and may affect him or her throughout his or her entire life.

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